So you're going to become a father. Now is not the time to panic. You've got lots of time to get used to the idea, before that new life you helped create, arrives to join your own. These tips for a first-time Dad will help you to survive the pre-baby and post-birth jitters.
Be supportive of your partner during the pregnancy. Some women have a more difficult time than others, and the fluctuation of hormones can bring on everything from mood swings to what seems to be unreasonable irritation with you, and everything else. While you may not understand her moods, remember that they are transient, and weather them in whatever way works best for you both. She may be irritated, but would appreciate a simple gesture like flowers, a foot rub, or even a cup of tea without having to get up. You'll find your own paths to peace, as the pregnancy progresses.
When the baby arrives, don't be upset if you don't fall in love immediately. You're excited to be a father, but often men think they are failing in some respect, when they don't feel the same overwhelming bond that a mother does. But you didn't carry another life inside you for nine months. So one of the best tips for a first-time Dad, is to give yourself time to love, and be loved back.
Because you have been basically on the "outside" of things until the birth, you may not feel you're really an integral part of their life. Nothing could be further from the truth, because you are now a father, and with that comes all the responsibilities and worries that a mother has.
Parenting isn't done alone, it's done together, with the two of you supporting each other, giving each other breaks from the routine and stresses, as well as taking pleasure in watching your child grow and thrive, together.
If you're anxious about being a daddy, Visit http://www.MalcolmsWeb.com and sign up for free weekly tips that will take the mystery and fear out of parenting your precious little one.
![]() Google News Updated : Mon, 13 Oct 2008 11:51:33 GMT Fantastic finishes: 5 NFL games down to the wire - Washington Post
Washington Post - Dallas Cowboys' Mat McBriar (1) has his punt blocked by Arizona Cardinals' Sean Morey as Monty Beisel (52) looks on during overtime of an NFL football game Sunday, Oct. 12, 2008 in Glendale, Ariz. Blocked punt downs Dallas Backups Burst Through Line and Lift Cardinals in Overtime Publ.Date : Mon, 13 Oct 2008 08:15:50 GMT 1.5 million G1 Android phones pre-ordered - TG Daily
TG Daily - By Wolfgang Gruener Chicago (IL) - T-Mobile’s upcoming G1 may not be the best-looking iPhone rival, it may not have the most complete feature set and T-Mobile may have undersold the device at the recent launch event. Get ready for next-gen mobile HTC G1 Android Phone Racks up 1.5 Million Pre-orders Publ.Date : Mon, 13 Oct 2008 05:21:21 GMT European, Asian markets bounce back - The Associated Press
The Associated Press - LONDON (AP) - European markets opened strongly Monday following Asia's lead in response to the widespread government efforts over the weekend to shore up the world's troubled financial system. The financial crisis A light at the end of the tunnel? World stock markets welcome European bank rescue Publ.Date : Mon, 13 Oct 2008 10:23:04 GMT Manatee dies before reaching rehab site - Boston Globe
Boston Globe - By Emily Canal After a 27-hour trip to Florida, Dennis the manatee, rescued from the frigid waters of Cape Cod, died in Orlando yesterday as SeaWorld employees carted the mammal to a rehabilitation center. Video: Rescued Manatee Dies After Mass. Rescue Manatee rescued off Cape Cod dies en route to Florida Sea World Publ.Date : Mon, 13 Oct 2008 07:21:21 GMT Forecast: Summery Sunshine Sticks Around - Washington Post
Washington Post - Columbus Day will feel a lot more like Labor Day as temperatures climb to around 80 degrees. This unseasonably warm weather will continue for the next several days. Enjoy a warm, sunny Columbus Day Beautiful start to the work week Publ.Date : Mon, 13 Oct 2008 09:03:26 GMT UK government takes stake in three banks - CNN International
CNN International - LONDON, England (CNN) -- The British government on Monday said it would make a multi-billion investment in three of the country's major banks to help them through the "first financial crisis of the global age. In quotes: Bank bail-out reaction TEXT-Lloyds TSB terms for acquisition of HBOS Publ.Date : Mon, 13 Oct 2008 11:18:47 GMT Dodgers stand up to Phillies in Game 3 win - FOXSports.com
FOXSports.com - by Ken Rosenthal Ken Rosenthal has been the senior baseball writer for FOXSports.com since Aug. 2005. He appears weekly on the FSN Baseball Report and MLB on FOX. LA revitalized at Moyer's expense Kuroda's pitch serves its purpose for Dodgers Publ.Date : Mon, 13 Oct 2008 07:00:36 GMT Increase Website Traffic |
PARLOT::Ebooks, Scripts,
Websites, and more... The most common medications used in the treatment of Attention... Read More Words are truly powerful things. They are something that becomes... Read More 10 Fun Things You Can Do With Your Children this... Read More Having a baby is one of the most exciting times... Read More On one of her quarterly visits to see her grandson,... Read More Here is something that you might want to keep if... Read More Is your baby approaching his or her first birthday and... Read More I've learned numerous, important lessons on life, motherhood and men... Read More Does your child pout, blame and brood? Does he gripe,... Read More "How many times do I have to tell you to... Read More Many public schools not only fail to educate our children,... Read More We all wish that our children should not smoke or... Read More "What age should my child start school?"This is a common... Read More Home-schooling provides children with a superior education. Parents can quickly... Read More What would it be like to have a clone? What... Read More Puberty can be a difficult time for children. Not quite... Read More Chaim Ginott was a schoolteacher whose ideas and observations helped... Read More You have just received a call from your child's teacher... Read More Do you have a wild child? Then this article may... Read More Handing Down Malignancy.Children may begin bright and eager to face... Read More Although it might seem pretty corny to a lot of... Read More Prenatal intelligence, also known as fetal intelligence, has become a... Read More As Mother's Day approaches I would like to give a... Read More What do you mean average? Not good? Just doing good... Read More Ask parents what their biggest school year challenge is, and... Read More
Adsense
websites
Intro to Medications for ADD ADHD
The POWER of Your Words
Fun Things to Do with Your Kids this Summer
Why Modern Moms Are Going Back to the Basics ? The Evolution of the Cloth Diaper
Im a Mom, Shes a Mom: Being an Adult with Your Parents
The ADHD Parents Guide: Questions for the School
Breastfeed a Toddler - Why?
Top Ten Things My Six Year-Old Son Has Taught Me (So Far...)
Parents, Teach Thought-Stopping! Fix Crooked Thinking Caps
Personal Responsibility: What It Means and Whose Job is It?
Drugs and Violence In Public Schools
We All Wish That Our Children Have Good Virtues, But... Are We Setting A Good Example Ourselves?
Starting School - What Age Should Children Begin School?
Homeschooling --- A Superior Education For Your Child
Cloning; is it for you?
Puberty - Get Ready to Play the Puberty Game
How NOT to Motivate Your Children and Students
Understanding Why Your Child Has Been Recommended for Testing
Disciplining the Wild Child
MORAL ARMORS Irrational Parenting, Part II
Andy Griffith Show Family Lessons
What is Prenatal Intelligence?
Mothers Day Tribute
Just Average
End Homework Battles
In the first premise, some films and video tapes which... Read More
Bullies are an ugly but very real part of childhood.... Read More
Home, home on the range, Where never is heard A... Read More
How do we deal with our seriously distressed children and... Read More
Every now and then I'll get a story sent to... Read More
Q. My daughter is a junior in high school and... Read More
It's no joy to be sick. It's even less joy... Read More
Children think money grows on trees. Maybe not literally, but... Read More
By not planning for the future we guarantee that we... Read More
She slipped her small, soft eight-year-old hand into mine. Her... Read More
Becoming a stepmother can undoubtedly be one of the most... Read More
Vacations and trips are great family events, but how do... Read More
In elementary school it's pretty straightforward: bringing in cupcakes to... Read More
You are in the final round of your favorite game... Read More
You've just received a call from your child's teacher. As... Read More
Parents want their children to succeed in school. However, sometimes... Read More
We begin forming healthy habits at a young age. With... Read More
Not so long ago a dad-to-be would pace up and... Read More
The purpose of this article is to address some of... Read More
Most of us recognize the continuing escalation of violence around... Read More
So your little Susie wants to join a competitive gymnastic... Read More
"In general my children refuse to eat anything that hasn't... Read More
Is Homework Really That Important?Dear Friends,I no longer teach in... Read More
This is the third and final article in a series... Read More
I have three children, ages 19 and 16 (yes, the... Read More
Parenting |