Q. I've been working on a big project for a long time. Although I try to move ahead every day, sometimes I have to force myself to accomplish even a small task. When I skip a day, I feel guilty. How can I stay motivated?"
A. When you're working on a book, job search, business start-up, dissertation, or special project, you can feel consumed by the project. And often you feel as though you can't afford to take a break, let alone a day off.
I once heard a writer say, "Sometimes I'm really productive. I write five pages on my book! Then the next day I'm drained. So I review what I've written or organize my research files."
And I feel the same way. I resist taking a day off to read a new mystery, go for a hike, visit an art museum, or watch a season of an HBO series on DVD. But the next day, invariably, I wake up eager to work. And I accomplish everything I need to do, and more.
Frankly, I've never found staring at a blank screen (or paper, in the old days) does much good. Resistance means, "Time for a change of pace!"
These beliefs are supported by scientific evidence. Psychologists who study these up-and-down activity blips have found a certain randomness operates in human productivity levels.
For example, an employee "Bill" varied his arrival time at work. When Bill was late, his boss yelled at him. When Bill was on time, the boss offered praise.
Sure enough, Bill responded. The day after the boss yelled, Bill was on time. And the day after the reward, Bill slacked off and arrived late. So, concluded the boss, praise doesn't work. And punishment does.
There was only one problem. A computer demonstrated that Bill's arrival times showed a pattern of random variation. In fact, the computer could predict quite accurately how Bill would perform - with or without praise and blame.
The same pattern has been found among students: some days you learn faster while other days you just don't get it. And some days you're productive and efficient, while other days you're sluggish.
If you've studied statistics, you're probably guessed that we're talking about regression to the mean, which is very powerful. People usually have an average level of productivity. When they work hard one day, they tend to slow down the next.
So here's an exercise. Suppose you have a writing project. You set a goal: write 500 words a day. For other projects, find a daily activity level that's easy to observe and measure.
For the next 30 days, track how many words you write (or how productive you are in the task you've chosen). Some days you'll write 1000 words, other days none, with lots of variation. Each day just record your word count, without judging your output. At the end of 30 days, calculate an average. And calculate again after 60 days.
You may find that your natural average is 300 words a day. You can lower your daily goals - or recognize that you work best with your random pattern.
Obviously, if you have a deadline, you may have to increase your output. Professional writers typically write 1000-3000 words a day.
But if you're making acceptable progress toward a goal, you can begin to understand, accept and work with your natural rhythm. Regardless, beating yourself up and feeling guilty won't work. If you're constantly falling behind, maybe it's time for a change of career - a chance to enjoy marching your life to a new beat.
Most of all, I ask my clients to remove the word "lazy" from their vocabularies - forever! When you're berating yourself for lack of progress - stop! Chances are you're right on schedule.
Cathy Goodwin, Ph.D., helps midlife professionals who want to make huge, medium and small career changes. Strategize, get unstuck, start a business or start over. Fr^e Report: Ten secrets of managing a major life change. mailto:subscribe@cathygoodwin.com
Contact mailto:cathy@cathygoodwin.com or call 505-534-4294
http://www.cathygoodwin.com
http://www.copy-cat-copywriting.com
![]() Google News Updated : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 05:49:35 GMT Bush: US authority able to solve financial crisis - People's Daily Online
People's Daily Online - US President George W. Bush arrives in the Rose Garden at the White House to makes a statement on the economy in Washington, October 10, 2008. President Bush vows action on financial crisis Bush's Lullaby to the Markets Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 04:12:49 GMT McCain Lauds and Attacks Obama in Same Day - New York Times
New York Times - Senator John McCain of Arizona and his supporters at a rally on Friday in La Crosse, Wis. By ELISABETH BUMILLER LAKEVILLE, Minn. - After a week of trying to portray Senator Barack Obama as a friend of terrorists who would drive the country into ... McCain Moves to Soften the Tone at Rallies John McCain, speaking to supporters, tries to defuse an anti ... Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 05:08:14 GMT Paulson Indicates Need to Purchase Bank Equity `Soon as We Can' - Bloomberg
Bloomberg - By John Brinsley and Rebecca Christie Oct. 11 (Bloomberg) -- US Treasury Secretary Henry Paulson indicated that pumping government funds into banks is a priority and said financial markets will remain volatile. US planning to buy equity in financial institutions Treasury Weighs Investing In Banks Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 04:21:05 GMT Democrats Are Gaining, Registration Data Shows - New York Times
New York Times - By NICHOLAS CONFESSORE and GRIFF PALMER Some longtime Republican strongholds in New York are becoming increasingly Democratic, a striking change driven by demographic shifts, intense voter registration drives by Democrats and allied groups and sagging ... Campus registration drives in full swing Ott, Hook face off for open county office Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 03:20:33 GMT Genomics project unites four Wisconsin research institutions - Milwaukee Journal Sentinel Milwaukee Journal Sentinel - By KATHLEEN GALLAGHER Wisconsin’s four biggest academic research institutions will collaborate on an initiative aimed at giving the state national stature in the fast-emerging field of individualized medicine, Gov. Marshfield Clinic gets biggest donation yet Wis. governor unveils gene research triangle Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 05:29:44 GMT US Near Changing Stance on North Korea as Terrorist - Wall Street Journal
Wall Street Journal - By JAY SOLOMON WASHINGTON -- The Bush administration is hoping to announce as soon as Saturday that it is tentatively removing North Korea from its list of state sponsors of terrorism, in a bid to kick-start a stalled nuclear disarmament agreement, ... AP: US to remove North Korea from terror blacklist US May Remove North Korea From Terrorism List, AP Reports Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 04:02:40 GMT G-7 Commit to `All Necessary Steps' to Stem Global Meltdown - Bloomberg
Bloomberg - By Simon Kennedy Oct. 11 (Bloomberg) -- Group of Seven finance chiefs, meeting after stocks plunged and as a global recession looms, vowed to prevent the failure of vital banks while failing to unveil new initiatives for thawing credit markets. Group of 7 Nations Seek Coordination in Rescue In latest bold step, Treasury will buy bank stakes Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 04:03:42 GMT Work From Home |
PARLOT::Ebooks, Scripts,
Websites, and more... Ever feel like giving up? Do you ever feel so... Read More We've all heard people say "I have a system". Ever... Read More I want to share with you a powerful principle that... Read More "Move out of your comfort zone. You can only grow... Read More For years, many of us heard the phrase "Knowledge is... Read More Round about us is an invisible box that we have... Read More How quickly we forget. We are only a few weeks... Read More Creativity can be defined as problem identification and idea generation... Read More Copyright © 2003 Priya Shah Is it... Read More "We hold these truths to be self-evident: That all men... Read More "What are you waiting for?" said Nelson, looking at me... Read More Imagine being able to choose any outcome and automatically feel... Read More Many of us are influenced by the sports ethic: Never... Read More Believe it or not, values are in the core of... Read More While speaking at a San Diego university recently, I was... Read More Take this questionnaire to get clear on what you may... Read More We are all given the tools, but it is up... Read More "Deep in their roots, all flowers keep the light." ~... Read More Why should you bother to spend your valuable time to... Read More Yes, that's me up there! Interestingly enough, I used to... Read More Today I heard the saying "Trying is lying!"It made me... Read More When growing up as a child, the concept of learning... Read More March madness is great to watch not because I have... Read More Friends, it is always a power of your dreams and... Read More When I decided to look into remote viewing, I had... Read More
Adsense
websites
How to Use Discouragement to Motivate Yourself
Instant Willpower
Heres How Tiger, Oprah, And Spielberg Stay Motivated
Life Is About Taking
Say It Aint So
Dismantle Self Imposed Limits
Forgotten Your New Years Resolutions Already? How To Get Back On Track
Creativity and Innovation Management ? the Value of Challenge
If It Feels Good, It Must Be Right
Citizens of the Land of Opportunity
Testy Horses and the Art of Speed Waiting
People Who Get What They Want: What Are They Thinking?
The Toughest Decision of All: Get Out or Get Going!
What Do You Truly Value Most?
Wake Up to the Life You Love
Are You a Self-Saboteur?
Making Things Happen
Finding Your Authentic Path
14 Reasons To Get Motivated And Stay Motivated
Face Your Fears
Commitment vs.Trying - Is Trying Lying?
Commit To Applying Lessons Learned
March Madness - Give Me The Ball!
Chasing Your Dreams!
Define Your Own Future - Shatter The Crystal Ball!
Imagine what your life would be like if you could... Read More
As I usually do over the Holidays, I watched one... Read More
Ah, those New Year's resolutions.I suppose that the passage of... Read More
Many of us only inhabit our lives- we do not... Read More
What CHOICE do you want to make?Dictionary* says:the act of... Read More
The manifestations of motiveA man is captive within himself. He... Read More
It was only about 18 months ago that I could... Read More
In the form of a simple easy to use checklist,... Read More
The Japanese have a word for death by overwork: Karoshi.... Read More
Here are five feelings we all experience in changing times.... Read More
Q. I have several projects going at once -- but... Read More
Don't you just hate it when people make excuses for... Read More
'Procrastination is like a credit card: it's a lot of... Read More
Are you sick and tired of not getting ahead and... Read More
Carol was a new client. She had been looking for... Read More
-Lack of a specific purpose in life. You can not... Read More
This article exemplifies the inner working of emotional intelligence. Effectively... Read More
From the 'What You Need to Succeed' SeriesEvery once in... Read More
OK, maybe that's a bit of an overgeneralization but it... Read More
"Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence.... Read More
Who are we, standing here on this planet, looking for... Read More
Someone once pointed out to me that in many of... Read More
Can you believe it, summer is almost over. Did you... Read More
Nothing ever stays the same. On the one hand we... Read More
Here's a bold statement:Change can be simple and easy.It really... Read More
Motivation |