How To Rebuild Trust

Here are some quick thoughts on ways to turn things around.

  • Determine the real reasons why trust has diminished. Is it a problem in your industry? Something that happened in your company such as layoffs? Or is it personal ? they don't trust you? Don't rush out and create a new program or incentive scheme until you know the nature of the problem.
  • Determine what the implications of lower trust are. What is missing as a result? Does customer service or quality suffer? Is loyalty lower?
  • Now you've got the data you need to begin to address the problem. Be wary of window-dressing solutions. Don't try to pump people up or paint over the problems. You'll just waste your money and will risk adding to the cynicism. The only way to rebuild trust is to focus on the level of trust you want and confront the real reasons why there is a gap between what you want and what you've got.
  • Trust is hard to build and easy to destroy, so you must be patient. Set long-term goals. Don't expect a single meeting or some grand event to turn things around. This situation is similar to a marriage in which one partner had an affair. It takes a long time to rebuild trust in the other person. In fact, they may never regain the level of trust they enjoyed prior to the affair.

Rick is an advisor to organizations on ways to lead Change without Migraines?. He is author of many books on change including Why Don't You Want What I Want? and Beyond the Wall of Resistance. You can access free articles and tools at http://www.beyondresistance.com.

In The News:


Google News
Updated : Thu, 24 Jul 2008 00:51:42 GMT

Report: Eagles call Packers about Favre - SportingNews.com


CBC.ca
Report: Eagles call Packers about Favre
SportingNews.com - 1 hour ago
While the Philadelphia Eagles are taking it easy with Donovan McNabb in training camp as he works his way back from a shoulder injury, that hasn't stopped them from going after some potential insurance.
Winfield a Favre fan Minneapolis Star Tribune
AP Source: Goodell monitoring Favre situation The Associated Press
WAOW - Cappers Mall - Rotoworld.com - FOXSports.com
all 2,439 news articles

Publ.Date : Wed, 23 Jul 2008 23:26:08 GMT

Bloomberg, Gates pledge $375 mln against tobacco - Reuters


ABC News
Bloomberg, Gates pledge $375 mln against tobacco
Reuters - 1 hour ago
By Christine Kearney NEW YORK, July 23 (Reuters) - New York Mayor Michael Bloomberg and Microsoft Corp (MSFT.O: Quote, Profile, Research, Stock Buzz) co-founder Bill Gates pledged $375 million on Wednesday to fight what they called a global tobacco ...
Video: Gates, Bloomberg Pool Riches to Fight Smoking AssociatedPress
Bloomberg and Gates fight smoking BBC News
Bizjournals.com - AFP - FOXBusiness - USA Today
all 385 news articles

Publ.Date : Wed, 23 Jul 2008 23:11:25 GMT

Red alert! The cellphone warning has been issued - Los Angeles Times


ABC News
Red alert! The cellphone warning has been issued
Los Angeles Times - 44 minutes ago
Now he's done it. Dr. Ronald B. Herberman, director of the University of Pittsburgh Cancer Institute, has said what no one else would -- no cancer experts anyway.
Pittsburgh Cancer Center Warns of Cell Phone Risks ABC News
Cancer researcher warns about cell phone use USA Today
Dallas Morning News - WLOS - United Press International
all 236 news articles

Publ.Date : Thu, 24 Jul 2008 00:07:36 GMT

Review: 'Step Brothers' - 40-year-old goobers - San Francisco Chronicle

Review: 'Step Brothers' - 40-year-old goobers
San Francisco Chronicle - 2 hours ago
Step Brothers: Comedy. Starring Will Ferrell and John C. Reilly. Directed by Adam McKay. (R. 95 minutes. At Bay Area theaters. For complete movie listings and show times, and to buy tickets for select theaters, go to sfgate.
Video: The Stars of 'Step Brothers' CBS
`Step Brothers' Ferrell, Reilly reunite as duo The Associated Press
amNewYork - TheCelebrityCafe.com - Arizona Daily Star - indy.com
all 209 news articles

Publ.Date : Wed, 23 Jul 2008 22:39:58 GMT

The night Karadzic rocked the Madhouse - guardian.co.uk


The Gazette (Montreal)
The night Karadzic rocked the Madhouse
guardian.co.uk - 4 hours ago
A man plays a gusle in a bar called Madhouse in Belgrade, where war crimes suspect Radovan Karadzic is now known to have frequented.
Video: Karadzic's arrest sparks clashes - 23 Jul 08 AlJazeeraEnglish
Arrest of Radovan Karadzic: Why Now and Who's Next? Voice of America
The Associated Press - BBC News - AFP - Reuters
all 5,599 news articles

Publ.Date : Wed, 23 Jul 2008 20:35:43 GMT

'Dark Knight' Christian Bale's lady sidekick: Sibi Bale - Los Angeles Times


E! Online
'Dark Knight' Christian Bale's lady sidekick: Sibi Bale
Los Angeles Times - 57 minutes ago
Like the Dark Knight/Bruce Wayne, Christian Bale is a real-life man of mystery. Averse to personal publicity, he is well-known for not wanting to discuss his private life.
Christian Bale, Wife "Solid" at Knight's Spain Premiere E! Online
Bale attends 'Dark Knight' premiere in Spain The Associated Press
New York Daily News - FOXNews - MSNBC - Just Jared
all 2,295 news articles

Publ.Date : Wed, 23 Jul 2008 23:54:18 GMT

Hurricane Dolly Makes Landfall in Southern Texas (Update2) - Bloomberg


ABC News
Hurricane Dolly Makes Landfall in Southern Texas (Update2)
Bloomberg - 1 hour ago
By Demian McLean July 23 (Bloomberg) -- Hurricane Dolly was downgraded to a Category 1 storm as it made landfall today in southern Texas, where coastal residents weathered their first direct hit by a hurricane in almost a decade.
Video: Dolly Pummels Texas Gulf Coast AssociatedPress
Dolly forces refining cuts, hits gas output guardian.co.uk
CNN - AFP - ABC News - The Associated Press
all 6,204 news articles

Publ.Date : Wed, 23 Jul 2008 23:36:26 GMT

How to Earn Money At Home
RSS to HTML


PARLOT::Ebooks, Scripts, Websites, and more...

Adsense websites

Rules for Running a Meeting

As an experienced manager, I can announce without a doubt... Read More

The Dog That Didnt Bark

A few weeks ago, after consultations with others in an... Read More

The Comfort Zone

The Comfort Zone I... Read More

Juggling Demands in an Organization

JUGGLING DEMANDS: All leaders constantly juggle a multifarious array of... Read More

Drafting an Employee Manual Sample Outline

One of the hardest things I had discovered running my... Read More

Management Procedures Usability ? How to Improve

Are your people consistently following your procedures? Each year, organizations... Read More

Classifying Motivational Needs

While there exist several useful definitions of motivation, for our... Read More

How To Decrease Downtime and Increase Productivity

All maintenance activities of the workforce must be documented, this... Read More

11 Strategies on How to Work in An Open Plan Environment

Many work environments now are open plan, with only a... Read More

More Computer Consulting 101 Hiring Tips (Part 2 of 2)

Does your company need to retain the services of a... Read More

Take the Easy Route - Delegate

It was 2.30 am. It was cold and dark and... Read More

Why Business Owners Need Security

The main reason is to stop any potential lawsuits from... Read More

The Significance of the Mundane

This article begins with a tip of the hat to... Read More

How to Save Money on Training

1) Use a live instructor. Adults learn best by doing,... Read More

Seeking Help

Where does the time go? Billable time. As a consultant,... Read More

Squeezing the Blood Out of that Old Turnip

I suspect all of you out there have someone that... Read More

On the Road to Assertiveness

Learning to be assertive takes time, courage and the ability... Read More

Profound Knowledge

We all are on a quest for knowledge. Whether its... Read More

Running Successful Meetings - The Key Steps To Getting It Right

We all complain about meetings which are a waste of... Read More

Thoughts on Empowerment

People are empowered when they are given the authority and... Read More

Protect Your Computer System with a Comprehensive Security Policy

The most difficult part of creating a Security Policy for... Read More

What to Do When Trust is Low

Trust is essential. You can't run a business without it.... Read More

I Am Not A Number - Why Too Many Change Projects Fail

Many of you will recognise this quote from the 1960s... Read More

Creativity Management - The Value of Being Prolific

When asked his secret to success, the author Graham Green... Read More

Make It Easy to Reply - Voice Mail That Works

If you are like most business people, voice mail has... Read More