Habits get a bum rap. When you think about your habits, I bet you think of the "bad" ones - the ones that you aren't particularly proud of, like eating too much sugar, or smoking, or dwelling on your negative thoughts. According to Webster's dictionary a habit simply is: A pattern or action that is acquired and has become so automatic that it is difficult to break.
It's easy to see how if you start a behavior, and continue to reinforce it, it quickly becomes a habit. The pint of Ben and Jerry's after dinner, playing Free Cell when you should be making calls, or always leaping to a negative conclusion when something happens. Once habits are formed, they can be hard to break, correct?
Get ready for a new perspective ? habits can be good! What if, instead of relating to your habit as a problem, you were able to use your habits creatively to help you be more successful? Since habits are a natural part of our human experience (for better or worse), learning to capitalize on your innate ability to form positive patterns can mean a very successful life and business.
Here are 5 habits that successful entrepreneurs can learn to develop.
1. Build resilience. You don't need me to tell you - part of what goes with the territory when you're self-employed is the incessant up and down of sales and cash flow. This is probably the number one stress producer for entrepreneurs.
Building the habit of resilience will help you to elegantly weather the unavoidable ups and downs. You build resilience by building your reserves. Some examples of reserves are cash (having 6-9 months of savings in the bank), self-esteem (plenty of positive regard for yourself) or confidence (feeling like an expert in your field).
What creates the most worry for you when faced with a stressor in your business? Focus on building a reserve of what ever will counter your number one stressor.
2. Become a passion junkie. Passion is an emotion ? it's a feeling of excitement and intensity. It arises when you recognize something that authentically resounds in your being, and is a result of love and affinity. You know when you feel it and you know when it's missing.
Unfortunately, many people have developed the default habit of connecting with the emotion of fear instead. Fear (unless a polar bear is chasing you) fuels negative thinking and always results in stress. How do you connect with your passion? How can you begin to disqualify the fear-based thoughts that want to hog the road (of your mind)? Once you discover your passion, or remember it, taking active steps to stay connected to it will begin a new practice and encourage the passion habit in your life. 3. Be authentic. According to psychologist, Abraham Maslow, "Authenticity is the reduction of phoniness toward the zero point." Strive to be honest in your personal and professional dealings so your behavior and speech are a true and spontaneous expression of your inner self. Live in a way that expresses your real vision, values and characteristics.
Do you know who you truly are? By knowing yourself first, you will develop the habit of authenticity. What you put into the world will begin to be congruent with what you receive back from the world.
4. Work smarter not harder. If you're not careful, working hard can deteriorate into an exhausting habit, rather than an expression of an ethic. Often what drives and motivates entrepreneurs is the desire for success, but the pursuit of success often comes with mental baggage that can undermine it.
What are the mental "tapes" that cycle through your thought stream to undermine you? "I've got to work hard and prove myself"; "If I don't do it myself, it won't get done" or perhaps, "If I could just put in more time, I'd get it all done". Begin to build the habit of working smarter not harder. Counter the disempowering messages with some practical actions that put your business more on autopilot. Improve your systems, take the time to plan, and delegate.
5. Practice generosity. The international business networking organization BNI's motto is "Givers Gain". The premise is ? more will come back to you if you focus on generously giving to your business network, and your customers.
Giving, providing value, or offering superlative customer service is an attractive attribute and positive habit to develop. Tim Sanders, author of "Love Is The Killer App" articulates this business idea as, "the act of intelligently and sensibly sharing your intangibles with your business partners". This value can drive your business and your life up as far as you want it to go. What intangibles do you have to offer your world? What shift in your success and happiness do you see possible by focusing on giving rather than gaining?
If creating a habit is as easy as starting a behavior, and then repeating it (practice), consider the positive and powerful habits you could begin to form in your life and business, starting today! Going back to Webster's definition, a positive habit would be equally hard to break. Wouldn't that be nice for a change?
It's YOUR life... live it completely!
Helaine is a professional coach and writer, who has been featured in numerous publications, including "O" The Oprah Magazine. She helps entrepreneurs and professional women accelerate their professional success, while achieving a more complete and fulfilling personal life. For a free consultation, contact her at 603-357-8546 to discuss how she can help you accelerate your own success. You may also visit her website, http://www.pathofpurpose.com, or email your questions to helaine@pathofpurpose.com.
![]() Google News Updated : Mon, 08 Sep 2008 02:08:49 GMT Yakima Valley mosquitoes worst in decade - Seattle Times
Seattle Times - Cody Jansen sloshes through a pasture, his rubber boots squishing in muddy puddles as he goes. By ROSS COURTNEY Cody Jansen sloshes through a pasture, his rubber boots squishing in muddy puddles as he goes. Yakima Valley mosquitoes worst in decade Update: 413 Americans found with West Nile so far this year Publ.Date : Sun, 07 Sep 2008 23:00:37 GMT Murray Finishes Off Nadal to Reach His First Open Final - New York Times
New York Times - By LIZ ROBBINS In a few graceful bounds what was a step or two more after 26 hours of waiting for his chance; Andy Murray raced from behind the baseline and tracked down Rafael Nadal’s drop shot, blasting a two-handed backhand winner past Nadal, ... Video: Federer Beats Djokovic to Reach US Open Final Murray finishes off Nadal, will face Federer in US Open final Monday Publ.Date : Mon, 08 Sep 2008 01:42:31 GMT FDA lists 20 drugs for their potential risks - Food Consumer
Food Consumer - By Sue Mueller Sunday Sep 7, 2008 (foodconsumer.org) -- The FDA on Sep. 5, 2008 announced that it will publish quarterly a list of drugs that are being evaluated by the agency for its potential risks that have not been known earlier. FDA to List Drugs Being Investigated The Basics on the Foodfight Over Irradiation Publ.Date : Mon, 08 Sep 2008 01:01:40 GMT Colleges take on drinking age - Christian Science Monitor
Christian Science Monitor - Manchester, NH - Would lowering the drinking age make alcohol problems more or less prevalent on campus? In a bold challenge to the decades-old status quo, 129 college presidents have signed a statement calling on elected officials "to support an ... University Presidents Call Want a Lower Drinking Age Some call for lower drinking age Publ.Date : Sun, 07 Sep 2008 17:00:08 GMT Israeli Police Suggest Indicting Olmert - New York Times
New York Times - By ISABEL KERSHNER JERUSALEM - The Israeli police on Sunday recommended indicting the prime minister, Ehud Olmert, on charges including bribe-taking, fraud and breach of trust. Israeli police urge PM's indictment for corruption Israeli Police Recommend Indicting PM Olmert Publ.Date : Sun, 07 Sep 2008 22:59:03 GMT Powerful Hurricane Ike heads for Cuba, Gulf - Reuters
Reuters - By Marc Frank HAVANA (Reuters) - Ferocious Hurricane Ike ripped off roofs in the southern Bahamas on Sunday and Cuba scrambled to move hundreds of thousands of people inland, away from a storm eventually headed toward the US Gulf oil patch and possibly ... Video: Raw Video: Ike's Harsh Impact on Turks and Caico Hurricane Ike set to batter Cuba Publ.Date : Mon, 08 Sep 2008 01:19:47 GMT ABC gets Sarah Palin's first TV interview - Los Angeles Times
Los Angeles Times - Minutes after we posted the item below about Sarah Palin's non-appearance on the Sunday talk shows came word that the GOP's vice presidential nominee will be interviewed this week by (drumroll, please) Charles Gibson of ABC, the anchor of "World News. Palin Plans Interview With ABC Next Week Palin's to Sit Down ABC News' Charlie Gibson Publ.Date : Sun, 07 Sep 2008 21:17:32 GMT Add RSS Feeds to My Website |
PARLOT::Ebooks, Scripts,
Websites, and more... It is widely held that one of the most important... Read More The latest series in "The Apprentice" features 2 distinct group... Read More Through just five or six intermediaries, you could be linked... Read More Venture capital firms are comprised of individual partners. These partners... Read More Recently my bank opened a new branch that is a... Read More You've seen plenty of articles claiming to offer you the... Read More One trait of franchisors and something you will find in... Read More A primary inhibitor of business start-up is that few people... Read More Franchises offer the first time business owner a proven and... Read More When raising capital for a business venture, a company can... Read More Ah, coffee, the drink of choice when I want to... Read More If that sounds like you, here's what you may be... Read More Living in the twilight zone has its advantages. In the... Read More Our client in Chicago did, located right outside downtown too...a... Read More An entrepreneur is an innovator. She sees a need in... Read More James had an original concept and he needed an investor.... Read More What is it that sets a successful businessperson apart from... Read More It is only natural that when you start a business,... Read More Franchise business is being part of a successfully proven business... Read More You've probably heard this, or maybe you will relate to... Read More Times are tough. The economy is in a constant state... Read More When companies enter into negotiations with venture capital firms, there... Read More Great question! Overwhelm is very common even among the most... Read More "Half of any job is having the right tool" was... Read More Mission Viejo, CA - June 14, 2005 - Bob Meyer,... Read More
Adsense
websites
7 Small Business and Self Employed Law of Attraction Principles For Success
Street Smarts Vs Book Smarts, What Does It Takes To Be An Entrepreneur
Six Degrees of Separation
Identifying the Right Venture Capital Firm Partner
Its Good to Know Your Banker
Getting Rich Isnt a Bad Idea
Oil Change Guys History; Part IV
Financial Issues in Business Startup
Franchises - A Proven Business System
The Use of Common Stock in Venture Capital Transactions
The Perfect Little Coffee Shop: Are You Afraid of Failure? Are You Letting that Failure Cripple You
PR That Entrepreneurs Often Overlook
An Entrepreneurs Challenge
Salon Marketing Using Wireless Broadband Internet Access
An Entrepreneur Is
Be An Entrepreneurial Artist: Paint A Picture, then Commit It to Canvas
How Entrepreneurs Succeed - The 5 Qualities Needed For Business Success
What Makes An Entrepreneur Tick?
Franchise Business and Franchise Businesses
Do You Want to Just Survive or Thrive? (Part 1)
Why Most CEOs & Entrepreneurs Fail?
Venture Capital Negotiating Issues
Entrepreneurs Ask: As a Novice Entrepreneur, How Can I Feel Less Overwhelmed?
Electronic Tools for Entrepreneurial Success
Ex-Yankee Pitcher Pitches Barter As Powerful Business Tool
1. Do What You LOVE: If you've chosen your business... Read More
Ah, coffee, the drink of choice when I want to... Read More
Q. I was laid off six months ago. Jobs in... Read More
Let me ask you a question? Imagine I would offer... Read More
Too many people are trying to start their home businesses... Read More
You have this burning desire you want to be on... Read More
With the growing number of franchise offerings recently it is... Read More
It never ceases to amaze me. Almost everyone peers into... Read More
Why, exactly, do you want to go into business for... Read More
Any success you have in life must begin with a... Read More
Widget sales are booming ? the competition is scrambling, demand... Read More
Does A Franchise Meet Your Needs?Do you look forward to... Read More
Identifying prospects has come a long way since the days... Read More
The psychology of entrepreneurship can be very rewarding to one... Read More
Some would say about certain issues that the means do... Read More
An entrepreneur is an innovator. She sees a need in... Read More
How often do the words "I need" come out of... Read More
Entrepreneurs know their business. They know their product, their service.... Read More
? Beginners often rush into business without any planning.? Unless... Read More
What I've discovered from most of my small business clients... Read More
Most companies vastly underestimate the time commitment necessary to successfully... Read More
Want to know why certain people succeed and others don't.... Read More
DON'T talk to me about education for entrepreneurs. They're pouring... Read More
I've seen terrible images today on the television and internet-bodies... Read More
As more and more people start or consider starting their... Read More
Entrepreneur |