The feeling that you need to impress a woman usually comes along with another feeling: don't screw this up. Here are some of the signs that a guy is feeling the need to "impress" the woman that he's talking to:
1) He tries to only say "cool" things, or things that will "impress" the woman.
2) He acts nervous and stilted during the conversation... sometimes coming across as "formal".
3) He tries to figure out what the woman wants to hear.
4) If he says something that the woman doesn't like, he "back-pedals" and tries to change what he said to suit the woman.
5) He doesn't say anything "risky", doesn't tease the woman, and doesn't do anything to upset her.
Surprisingly enough, those are big turn-offs to women. There are 5 things that you need to remember to impress a female on a first date. Remember to shower, put on fresh deodorant and cologne before going on a date. One of the biggest turn-offs for a woman is when their date smells bad!
1) Keep it casual. Always try to be polite, but don't come across as being formal. Open the door for her, pull out her chair so she can sit and push her in. If eating at a restaurant, ask her how her food is and if her beverage gets low, make sure to call the waiter/waitress to get her a refill.
2) Keep talking! I cannot stress this enough. Awkward silences are terrible on dates. Ask her questions about herself, to make the female feel like you genuinely care about her past life. Try not to make it sound like an interrogation though. Ask things like 'So have you ever been outside of the U.S.' or 'So where do you work?' Don't ever ask anything personal that could offend her.
3) If you had a good time on your first date, ask her if she wants to go back to your place for some coffee. If the date didn't go so well, or you are getting vibes that she isn't interested in you, just offer to drop her off at her house. On the way to her house/your house, ask her if she enjoyed it. If it sounds like she had a good time, talk about how you enjoyed it and want to know if she would go out with you again sometime.
4) (Assuming you are dropping her off at her house.) Walk her up to the door. On the way there, talk about how much fun you had with her. Give her a hug good-bye, and walk back to the car. Never stand at the door waiting to get invited in. Women in general find this very rude. Being rude to your date is just about the worst thing you can do.
5) (Assuming you invited her over to your house.) Walk her inside and go to the kitchen. Make coffee for the both of you, and talk about yourself and her. Do not make any moves on her. Most women do not want to have sex on a first date. Before she leaves, remember to get her number and tell her you will call her later in the week about maybe going out again sometime.
Daniel Okula is a writer and a web publisher for dating articles from http://datingtalk.net. Find more similar articles on his website.
![]() Google News Updated : Sat, 06 Sep 2008 02:06:27 GMT Thailand to buy 40% more rice from farmers - Financial Times
Financial Times - By Amy Kazmin in Bangkok Thailand's struggling government has agreed to buy 40 per cent more rice from farmers this year, a decision that could boost its popularity among rural voters as it prepares to face a national referendum aimed at ending an ... Video: Locking horns over politics in Thailand -- 05 September 2008 Thailand: What might happen next? Publ.Date : Sat, 06 Sep 2008 00:49:18 GMT Why Dell Wants To Sell Its Factories - Seeking Alpha Seeking Alpha - Dell Inc. (DELL), in a move aimed at cutting costs and improve profitability, according to the WSJ, has approached contract computer manufacturers with offers to sell most - and possibly all - of its factories around the world within the next 18 months ... Dell Trades Factories For Money Dell said to consider sale of factories Publ.Date : Sat, 06 Sep 2008 01:41:32 GMT Boeing machinists to strike as contract talks fail - Reuters
Reuters - By Bill Rigby and Laura Myers NEW YORK/EVERETT, Washington (Reuters) - Boeing Co's 27000-strong machinists' union declared it will strike at midnight Pacific time on Friday, as the plane maker failed to improve its contract offer after two days of ... Boeing's Talks With Machinists Fail; Strike to Start (Update2) Boeing workers to strike at midnight -- reports Publ.Date : Sat, 06 Sep 2008 00:18:05 GMT Qaddafi Meets Rice, Talks of Cooperation on Africa, Terrorism - Bloomberg
Bloomberg - By Viola Gienger Sept. 6 (Bloomberg) -- Libyan leader Muammar Qaddafi met with Secretary of State Condoleezza Rice yesterday and discussed cooperation on easing tensions in Africa and fighting terrorism, aiming to overcome decades of enmity with the US ... Video: Inside Story - Rice visits Libya - 03 Sep 08 - Part 1 US Libya relations in 'new phase' Publ.Date : Sat, 06 Sep 2008 00:57:47 GMT Seinfeld and Gates' Microsoft misfire - Los Angeles Times
Los Angeles Times - The new Microsoft commercial, featuring Jerry Seinfeld and Bill Gates out discount shoe shopping, was unveiled Thursday night on TV. Microsoft Works to Perfect Windows Vista The Bill and Jerry Show Publ.Date : Sat, 06 Sep 2008 00:55:05 GMT Transportation Dept. almost out of highway funds - The Associated Press
The Associated Press - WASHINGTON (AP) - The federal highway trust fund will run out of money this month, requiring delays in payments to states for transportation construction projects, Transportation Secretary Mary Peters said Friday. Federal highway trust fund to run out of money this month DOT says Highway Trust Fund is broke Publ.Date : Sat, 06 Sep 2008 01:21:42 GMT Can Palin also galvanize the US left? - Reuters Reuters - By Ed Stoddard - Analysis ST. PAUL (Reuters) - Sarah Palin is the magnet John McCain needs to attract religious and social conservatives who are not convinced he's one of them. McCain's big gamble US election at-a-glance: 5 Sept Publ.Date : Fri, 05 Sep 2008 23:01:33 GMT Increase Search Engine Traffic |
PARLOT::Ebooks, Scripts,
Websites, and more... Sometimes we need a hiatus from dating. A "hiatus" is... Read More Very few singles have ever gone through life without having... Read More Online dating is becoming more and more mainstream, as people... Read More The Law of the Right PersonWhile most of us put... Read More Let me mention a few names and you can tell... Read More Do you strike out with single women in the romance... Read More If you are knee deep in trying to find a... Read More 1) Don't look at other womenWhile dating, focus your attention... Read More The popularity of online dating has increased dramatically over the... Read More How to find a date? Promote yourself! That's one of... Read More In order for a typical woman to have sex with... Read More For a while now I've been wondering why some women... Read More No one would know how good you are if you... Read More Looking To Meet Women? Craving Female Company?Well, you've come to... Read More Are you dating or in a serious relationship? Did you... Read More There was a time when finding a date, partner, lover... Read More My husband and I used to live in NYC. WE... Read More There are so many dating sites out there, hundreds if... Read More Before you pick up the phone to make reservations for... Read More Dating online can be great fun, stimulating and exciting. So... Read More First dates cause anxiety and thoughts of disastrous and embarrassing... Read More I don't know if the craze of SMS has caught... Read More So you are thinking of giving online dating a try... Read More As the UK Online Dating market keeps on growing day... Read More Back in 2004, I met a gentleman who was interested... Read More
Adsense
websites
Should You Go on a Dating Hiatus?
Blind Date
Online Dating - Six Ways to Protect Your Privacy in Cyberspace
Great Dating Advice: 7 Universal Laws for Singles
How to Attract Girls Even If Youre Short
Dumb Dating Mistakes Men Make with Women
Fatal Flaws- How to Have a Happy Relationship and Keep Your Values Intact
7 Habits of Highly Successful Dating
How to Find the Background of Your Online Date
If You Want A Date, Promote Yourself!
Use The Boyfriending Technique To Get The Girl
Hot Women And Eye Contact
How To Write A Successful Personal Ad
Mens Guide To Online Dating Success. Secret Seduction Tips Revealed!
8 Deadly Dating Mistakes To Avoid!
Adult Dating: Friend or Foe - Your Sex Life and the Internet!
Finding Your Dream Date Sometimes Takes Guts!
How To Choose a Dating Service
How to Create A Romantic Dinner for Two on a Pontoon Boat
Dating Online in Safety
The Best First Date
Basic SMS Tips for Picking Up the Women of Your Dreams
Selecting an Online Dating Site
Dating in a Modern World
Are You Up For The Challenge
1. First, put yourself in the opposite position: If YOU... Read More
It's very important to learn how a single woman acts,... Read More
With special events like Valentine's Day coming and going each... Read More
Deal Breakers. Everyone's got them. You know: the instant turn-offs... Read More
Most of us have different levels of confidence. I'm sure... Read More
Until Death Do You Part?That certainly was a lie. Your... Read More
Women love to talk (just think of how long they... Read More
"When you truly look for me, You will find me."... Read More
As a result of dating for decades and chatting with... Read More
I don't know if the craze of SMS has caught... Read More
Okay, you've scored a date with a sexy somebody for... Read More
Sometimes we need a hiatus from dating. A "hiatus" is... Read More
I'm often surprised by the number of people who are... Read More
So, you've decided to take the plunge and follow in... Read More
Online dating is as safe, and in some ways safer... Read More
When it comes to the topic of looks with women,... Read More
A friend of mine recently exclaimed, "Dating is so complicated!"... Read More
(Black Couch Tales)Mike was completely stressed when he walked into... Read More
We are all too familiar with the term "body language".... Read More
ARIES (March 21 - April 19) - She's aggressive with... Read More
Have you ever been talking to someone you are interested... Read More
In any group of girls, there's usually one who's getting... Read More
No matter how you want to spin it, beautiful people... Read More
Well, if you didn't give that someone a bad impression... Read More
1. Tattoos.Tattoos used to be the colouring of soldiers, sailors,... Read More
Dating |