Nonverbal Interview Behavior

Non-verbal interview behavior can drown out your verbal self-presentation.

Practice interviewing in front of a full-length mirror or, better yet, videotape yourself if you have access to such equipment. Turn the sound down and watch yourself carefully.

How do you sit in your chair? Upright with an aura of energy and enthusisam or slumped as if you no longer care? Do you maintain good eye contact or look down at your hands when a question is difficult to answer? Do you lean forward to make a connection with the interviewer or appear distant and disconnected? Do you use your hands for an occasional gesture, to emphasize a point, or are they always in motion, as distractible as those ex-jocks on TV who constantly flail away regardless of what they are saying?

Can you cross your legs at the ankle and stay still or do you constantly shift in your chair and irritate everyone in the room? Do you have unconscious habits or mannerisms that distract from your professional demeanor such as twisting your hair, rubbing your nose, licking your lips, or cracking your knuckles? How is your voice? Is it monotonous, clear, nasal, or shrill? Do you smile - at appropriate moments not constantly like a beauty contestant on the runway?

Being aware of all that you are presenting to a potential employer can make your verbal presentation more effective and increase your chances for a successful outcome.

Virginia Bola operated a rehabilitation company for 20 years, developing innovative job search techniques for disabled workers, while serving as a Vocational Expert in Administrative, Civil and Workers' Compensation Courts. Author of an interactive and supportive workbook, The Wolf at the Door: An Unemployment Survival Manual, and a monthly ezine, The Worker's Edge, she can be reached at http://www.unemploymentblues.com or http://layoffblues.blogspot.com

In The News:


Google News
Updated : Sun, 12 Oct 2008 17:51:10 GMT

Golden Gate Managers Vote to Build Suicide Net - New York Times


China Daily
Golden Gate Managers Vote to Build Suicide Net
New York Times - Oct 10, 2008
By JESSE MCKINLEY SAN FRANCISCO - After decades of debate, and unknown numbers of lost lives, the board that controls the Golden Gate Bridge took a major step toward building a suicide barrier on Friday, voting to erect a net under the span.
Bridge directors vote for net to deter suicides San Francisco Chronicle
Golden Gate Bridge, Soon Suicide Free? eFluxMedia
Los Angeles Times - E Canada Now - AHN - The Associated Press
all 361 news articles

Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 02:37:30 GMT

Beckett struggles; Sox lose 9-8 in 11-inning slugfest - Boston Herald


BusinessWorld Online
Beckett struggles; Sox lose 9-8 in 11-inning slugfest
Boston Herald - 1 hour ago
By John Tomase ST. PETERSBURG, Fla. - The score was 8-8, and the significance of the next run immeasurable. For the Red Sox [team stats] it meant taking a 2-0 American League Championship Series lead back to Boston with ace Jon Lester [stats] ready for ...
Video: Tampa Bay Wins Slugfest on Sacrifice Fly AssociatedPress
Resilient Rays even up ALCS MLB.com
SI.com - FOXSports.com - USA Today - Boston Globe
all 3,249 news articles

Publ.Date : Sun, 12 Oct 2008 16:29:59 GMT

Calls for change mount at IMF, World Bank meet - Business Mirror


Vancouver Sun
Calls for change mount at IMF, World Bank meet
Business Mirror - 3 hours ago
WASHINGTON—Gone are the mobs in the street. Faced with a global recession, those demanding change from the rulers of the global economy appear to be on the inside as the International Monetary Fund (IMF) and World Bank hold annual talks.
Video: IMF: Timing right for G7 ReutersVideo
Results from the IMF meeting - just thin gruel RGE Monitor
Bloomberg - New York Times - KARK - MarketWatch
all 2,398 news articles

Publ.Date : Sun, 12 Oct 2008 14:32:49 GMT

US game designer blasts into space with DNA cargo - The Associated Press


Boston Globe
US game designer blasts into space with DNA cargo
The Associated Press - 2 hours ago
BAIKONUR, Kazakhstan (AP) - An American computer game designer reached space Sunday, fulfilling a long-deferred childhood dream that began with the flight of his astronaut father.
Video: Raw Video: US space tourist begins journey AssociatedPress
Richard Garriott Reaches Orbit, Can Finally Act Out Plot of Tabula ... Gizmodo
Sofia News Agency - Taipei Times - USA Today - Associated Content
all 947 news articles

Publ.Date : Sun, 12 Oct 2008 15:41:29 GMT

All is forgiven; McCain returning to Letterman - The Associated Press


Washington Post
All is forgiven; McCain returning to Letterman
The Associated Press - 2 hours ago
NEW YORK (AP) - David Letterman and Sen. John McCain will get a chance to make up. The Republican presidential candidate is scheduled to appear on Letterman's "Late Show" on Thursday.
McCain to Appear on Letterman this Thursday ABC News
John McCain to Return to David Letterman Entertainment Tonight News
Orlando Sentinel - WIVB - Reuters - Los Angeles Times
all 880 news articles

Publ.Date : Sun, 12 Oct 2008 14:52:08 GMT

As We See It: Elect Obama as next president - San Jose Mercury News


Sydney Morning Herald
As We See It: Elect Obama as next president
San Jose Mercury News - 1 hour ago
Barack Obama's remarkable rise really does equate with his campaign's theme: "Change you can believe in." In that many Americans today are concerned, even fearful, of what their future holds, Obama has demonstrated time and again that, while he might ...
What's the Difference Between Ageism and Other Forms of Bias? Depends. ABC News
Stop McCain's gambit Vallejo Times-Herald
13abc.com - NewsBlaze - Voice of America - Chicago Tribune
all 546 news articles

Publ.Date : Sun, 12 Oct 2008 16:32:54 GMT

Wall St Week Ahead: For stocks, high anxiety still rules - Reuters


CBS News
Wall St Week Ahead: For stocks, high anxiety still rules
Reuters - 2 hours ago
By Leah Schnurr NEW YORK (Reuters) - High anxiety on Wall Street won't subside this week as the deepening credit crunch pushes the global economy into recession, and corporate profits increasingly become an afterthought as investors scramble to raise ...
Wall Street's 8 brutal days CNN
The Crisis Goes From Bad to Worse Wall Street Journal
New York Times - Record-Searchlight - Newsday - guardian.co.uk
all 2,578 news articles

Publ.Date : Sun, 12 Oct 2008 15:44:24 GMT

Add RSS Feeds To My Web Pages
Web Site Traffic


PARLOT::Ebooks, Scripts, Websites, and more...

Adsense websites

Telecommuting Cover Letters

Question: How do I market myself online?Answer: With a stellar... Read More

Writing a Resume: To Template or Not To Template?

Are free resume templates a viable answer to preparing a... Read More

Traveling for An Interview? 10 Tips to Get You From Here to There

You've just been granted an on-site interview in another town.... Read More

Top 10 Super Job Interview Tips

Use these interview tips for job hunting success!It's a tough... Read More

You Should Interview the Interviewer, Too

I know what you are thinking. You're thinking, "Wait a... Read More

What You Need To Know Before Committing To Vocational Retraining

You've thought a lot about the kind of work you... Read More

Outsmart Other Job Seekers by Showing These 5 Key Strengths

Getting an appointment for an interview these days is an... Read More

Are You Sabotaging Your Career?

My experience working with thousands of leaders world wide for... Read More

Job Layoff: Confronting Why Me?

Perhaps you saw it coming. The fall in company stock... Read More

Losing a Career When Youre Moving for Love

Those who watched HBO's Sex and the City (SATC, now... Read More

Finally The First Online Job Agency in Mauritius

Mauritius is a small island in the Indian Ocean with... Read More

Create Your Plan B Before the Layoff Axe Falls

In one short week, the axe fell at a number... Read More

Seven Myths You Must Challenge Now To Begin Your Second Career Today

* Has it been awhile since you explored career options?*... Read More

Successful Job Seeking ? The Importance of Your Cover Letter

As an employer I receive many job applications each week.... Read More

Seven Ways to Say You?re Fired and What to Do When It Happens to You

Today's employers scramble for creative ways to advise employees of... Read More

Why Should We Hire You?

This is one of those broad questions that can take... Read More

Why Employers Want an Employee with a Degree

You wake up in the morning, head to work, and... Read More

How Well Do You Manage Your Boss?

Are you in this situation? You and your boss just... Read More

Job Interviews -- The Real Reasons Why You Need to Follow Up

Effective follow-up after a job interview is often a key... Read More

How to Crash - Proof Your Job Search

Think you have the speed, endurance, and know-how to fix... Read More

What is Workers Compensation Fraud

What is FraudFraud occurs when a person knowingly or intentionally... Read More

8 Steps to Getting On-Track When You Start a New Job

Starting a new job can feel like moving to a... Read More

Job Hunting: Its Still The First Impression Stupid!

In the 1992 USA Presidential election, political strategist James Carville... Read More

Your Interview Secret Weapon

Have you ever been on a date where you had... Read More

Strange Jobs Still Pay The Bills

Strange jobs? How do we define that? Years ago I... Read More