Does your job search feel like a big weight on your shoulders?
Are you confused about what you should do next?
Do you have starts and stops in your search activities?
Are you beating yourself up because you haven't done enough?
Okay, first things first.
Conducting a job search can be overwhelming under the best of circumstances.
Add to that a full time job, kids and/or other pressing responsibilities, and it gets even trickier.
And the higher you are on the food chain, the longer it takes to find your next position.
On top of all those pressures, are you making things worse by what you're telling yourself?
Clients beat themselves up because they don't feel up to the task.
There's too much information and they don't know where to start, so they do little and then give up.
Or they berate themselves because they haven't done "enough." Time for a reality check!
Here are some tips to keep it real:
? Set realistic standards and expectations. If you have locked-in time commitments (full-time job, kids, etc.), you need to be extra careful in planning your activities. Set weekly goals that you can comfortably meet. Under-promise and then, if you do more, you'll be happy with your progress.
? Learn to wait gracefully. Do you want it all now? Ahhh, if only. . . Deal with your impatience! The older I get, the more I realize the importance of being patient. Nothing happens overnight. All those folks who made it big spent years building, waiting and never giving up. Allow your career plan the time it needs to unfold.
? Have a plan. Before you take step one, what are your career goals? A new job? Positioning yourself for promotion? What's your timetable? I can't stress enough the importance of a written plan. That way you'll see the steps you need to take, can check off your accomplishments, and keep track of your progress. Remember to celebrate your wins.
? Don't put the cart before the horse. Can you compellingly and succinctly describe what you want? Don't expect people (recruiters, your networking contacts, friends, etc.) to connect the dots. Until you can easily articulate the kind of job you want and what you'd like to be doing, networking will be a wasted opportunity.
? Write a resume only after you are clear about your job goals. I get calls from prospective clients saying, "I need a new resume." After a few minutes of conversation, they admit they're unsure of their next career move. They expect a new resume to replace the pre-work they haven't done. Your resume should reflect your carefully thought out career objective.
? Find a committed listener and have them hold you accountable. You will accomplish more and feel better if you have a trusted friend to talk to on a consistent basis. This person can be a sounding board and can give you support when you hit a speed bump.
We spend our lives trying to reach our goals. Yet, the time we actually spend reveling in our achievement is minimal. Aren't you always thinking about the next thing you want? By accepting that your job search is a process that happens over time, you give yourself permission to relax and enjoy what's in front of you today.
Dale Kurow, M.S., is an author and a career and executive coach in NYC. Dale works with clients across the U.S. and internationally, helping them to become better managers, figure out their next career moves and thrive despite office politics. Visit Dale's web site at http://www.dalekurow.com/newsletter
to sign-up for her free monthly ezine "Career Essentials," chocked full of useful career tips and strategies you can use immediately.
![]() Google News Updated : Mon, 08 Sep 2008 02:08:49 GMT Patriots overcome injury to Brady, top Chiefs - Sports Network
Sports Network - Foxboro, MA (Sports Network) - Randy Moss had six receptions for 116 yards and a touchdown as New England overcame an early injury to quarterback Tom Brady to escape Kansas City, 17-10, in the season-opener for both clubs at Gillette Stadium. Patriots QB Brady out of opener vs. Chiefs Cassel comes through for Patriots Publ.Date : Mon, 08 Sep 2008 01:15:11 GMT Health Highlights: Sept. 6, 2008 - Washington Post
Washington Post - On the heels of the huge nationwide salmonella outbreak that caused more than 1400 illnesses from Mexican peppers, a regional Oregon alfalfa sprout distributor has recalled its product in Oregon and Washington state after the sprouts were linked to 13 ... Salmonellosis outbreak prompts sprout recall Salmonella outbreak traced to alfalfa sprouts Publ.Date : Sun, 07 Sep 2008 16:31:13 GMT Cage's 'Bangkok' tops worst movie weekend since 2001 - USA Today
USA Today - By Scott Bowles, USA TODAY After a record $4.2 billion in movie ticket sales this summer, the industry suffered its worst weekend in seven years, with the top movie at the box office doing less than $8 million. Video: 'Bangkok Dangerous' - Not a Safe Bet Fall box office off to slow start Publ.Date : Sun, 07 Sep 2008 16:23:28 GMT Falcons head coach: ‘Matt did a very good job’ - Atlanta Journal Constitution
Atlanta Journal Constitution - By CARROLL ROGERS Q. How did the third play - the touchdown from Matt Ryan to Michael Jenkins - develop? New Falcons head coach Mike Smith said of Matt Ryan, ‘It was a great way to see our rookie quarterback throw his first NFL pass. In-game analysis of the Lions' loss in Atlanta Lions' poor tackling about talent, not coaching Publ.Date : Mon, 08 Sep 2008 01:30:18 GMT Populists Gain Seats in Election in Hong Kong - New York Times
New York Times - By KEITH BRADSHER HONG KONG - Chinese national pride after the Olympics and growing distress over inflation combined to produce a leftward shift in legislative elections here on Sunday. Hong Kong Democrats Retain Veto Bloc in Legislative Elections Key wins for Hong Kong opposition Publ.Date : Mon, 08 Sep 2008 01:32:36 GMT Veteran Financiers to Head Fannie, Freddie - Washington Post
Washington Post - By Thomas Heath and Dina ElBoghdady The new chief executives at Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac have long histories in the financial services industry. Video: Feds Take Over Mortgage Giants FDIC to help small banks with Fannie, Freddie exposure Publ.Date : Mon, 08 Sep 2008 01:46:18 GMT Prime Minister Chances Early Election in Canada - New York Times New York Times - By IAN AUSTEN OTTAWA - Prime Minister Stephen Harper, putting aside the date he had set by law, formally propelled Canada into a federal election campaign on Sunday. Canadian PM calls October election With economy slow, Canada to hold early elections Publ.Date : Mon, 08 Sep 2008 01:06:35 GMT Amazon RSS Feed Generator |
PARLOT::Ebooks, Scripts,
Websites, and more... 1. Begin focusing on what you want instead of how... Read More In my last column, I explored Jim Collins' "hedgehog" principle,... Read More Think you have gone as far as you can in... Read More Using a general résumé.DON'T DO IT! You cannot successfully use... Read More Q. "I wasn't happy with my last performance review. Should... Read More As a human resources specialist for many years, I've seen... Read More How can you manage your emotions during your career change... Read More Ask yourself this question: "Do I like what I do... Read More I'm always preaching about proper preparation prior to interviews. If... Read More According to statistics one out of every five pregnant women... Read More The old adages: "It's not what you know, but who... Read More Planning and preparing before you begin to send out resumes... Read More This article relates to the Career Opportunities competency and explores... Read More Today's job market is competitive. Many companies receive hundreds of... Read More One of the fastest growing sectors of the medical industry... Read More We hear from our clients that they "hope the candidate... Read More According to the U.S. Department of Labor, March 2004 had... Read More This year we are experiencing the most dynamic and rapidly... Read More Do you dislike making decisions and avoid the challenge whenever... Read More Salary and Benefits NegotiationOne of the most difficult aspects of... Read More The Summary is the preview of your entire resume. This... Read More Use a resume as a foot in the doorWhen you... Read More Do you know that a hiring manager just spends 10... Read More If you can hold on to an optimistic belief in... Read More If you're looking for a way to earn a living... Read More
Adsense
websites
Ten Things To Do If You Really, Really Hate Your Job
How Hedgehogs Hire
Minding Your Own Business
Common Résumé Mistakes
7 Tips to Deal With a Bad Performance Review
Master Responding to Selection Criteria and Win Your Next Job!
Managing Emotions During Career Change and Job Search, Part One
Career Education Options For Working Adults
Dealing With How Would You...? Questions
Women Who Quit Work Abrubtly After Childbirth - Are You the Type?
Working as a Knowledge Worker in the Information Age
More Companies Using Job Interview Phone Screening
Tales from the Corporate Frontlines: Career Opportunity and Employee Retention
How to Write a Resume That Stands Out From The Crowd
Home Healthcare Careers
Out Recruit The Competition
Youre Fired Isnt The Finale
Finding Success In Todays Job Market
Build Your Career Decision By Decision
How to Negotiate The Best Salary and Benefit Packages
Resume Writing - Importance of a Professional Summary
Writing Resumes
The 10 Second Window of Opportunity, Resume Hour Glass
Overcoming Inertia in Job Change
Cleaning Houses for a Living Has Some Unexpected Benefits
Collect them all!Over the course of six months in my... Read More
Most jobs on farms in the UK involve picking strawberries... Read More
For the person crafting their first résumé the task can... Read More
One of the greatest threats facing both employees and the... Read More
What do many employees wish for at work? A bonus... Read More
Outsourcing has moved upward in the most-improved columns of efficiency... Read More
Many people's idea of networking relates to the 'size of... Read More
If you are concerned that your company might be planning... Read More
I was rushing through the white-tented terminal building at Denver... Read More
Does a headline like this scare you? it should because... Read More
Most of the time, competition stimulates us, gets our juices... Read More
This article is based on the following book:How... Read More
You're still reading?so I know my title grabbed your attention.Why?... Read More
Your job is to rise ABOVE the challenge. Do more... Read More
Having a great resume is the first critical step in... Read More
Many job seekers miss a golden opportunity when they are... Read More
Yes, it's still possible to be upwardly mobile in America:... Read More
HOW TO WRITE A RESUME-MISTAKE #1NEVER USE THE WRONG PAPER!... Read More
Whether you are looking for a job, new clients or... Read More
Your personal appearance is a critical component of that all-important... Read More
Regardless of where you open your briefcase or palm pilot... Read More
Think like an employerTo be successful in your job search... Read More
Most of us are aware that we need to grieve... Read More
The following eight tips will help make sure that recover... Read More
If you're reading this article, I'm sure I don't have... Read More
Careers, Jobs & Employment |