As the business sections of today's papers and magazines read more and more like the police blotter, ''Integrity'' is fast becoming a hot topc of conversation in business boardrooms, around water coolers, and in today's business best-sellers. Integrity is defined as walking the talk when it comes to living one's true values, being authentic. Take this self-assessment and explore how you walk your integrity talk when you show up at work.
Integrity is a lot like being pregnant. In other words, either you are pregnant, or you aren't. There's no middle ground. I''s the same with integrity.
At work, integrity is not a robe that one can put on and take off when it's convenient. However, day to day workplace behaviors more often than not seem to indicate convenience does lay a lare part in whether people show up in integrity or not. Who people are at work, and how people are at work, seems to change like the weather, the weather of convenience.
When asked, many folks say they believe they are, in fact, always acting in integrity. However, when we look at actual day-to-day, minute-by-minute workplace behaviors this is clearly not the case. Why? One reason is folks' basic needs for control recognition and security.
Because most people are driven by their egos and their ego needs for control, recognition and security, they often move away from their true and authentic self, from their deeper inner values, and behave in ways that are contrary to do-ing and be-ing in integrity.
So, do you think, feel and believe you live your core values at work, that you show up in integrity in your workplace? Take this self-assessment and explore who you are and how you are at work when it comes to integrity.
1. On an integrity scale of 1(low) to 10(high), how would you rate youself with it comes to the following workplace behaviors: (a) gossiping; (b) bullying; (c) viewing or downloading porn; (d) stealing physical materials; (e) stealine intellectual capital; (f) stealing time; (g) telling the truth; (h) taking responsibility for your piece of your team's projects; (i) making excuses; (j) being direct, open and honest in your communications; (k) respecting others; (l)
2. Who or what usually takes you our of interity?
3. When you're our of integrity, what kind of self-talk do you engage in?
4. Do your needs for control, recognition and security take you out of integrity?
5. Do you lie to yourself about being in integrity? If so, why?
6. Does it matter to you that you are out of integrity?
7. Do you use the same definition to define integrity for yourself and for others? If not, why not?
8. Do you respond if others act our of integrty and their actions directly affect you?
9. Do you respond if others act out of integrity and their actions affect your team, your unit, your department or your organization?
10. Do you ever excuse or rationalize your being out of integrity? If so, when and why?
At the end of the day, the workday, integrity is all about telling the truth about ourselves, to ourselves. It's all about living this truth.
Many of us are quick to judge and criticize others who act out of integrity. But truth be told, and it is all about the truth, many of us are just as prone to separate from our core values and act our of integrity when it's convenient in some way.
So, how did you do with your self-assessment? Who are you and how are you when it comes to showing up at work in integrity?
Peter G. Vajda, Ph.D, is co-founder of SpiritHeart, an Atlanta, GA firm specializing in coaching, counseling and facilitating. Peter focuses on personal, business and relationship coaching. He can be reached at 770-804-9125 and pvajda@spiritheart.net
![]() Google News Updated : Fri, 09 Jan 2009 16:11:26 GMT Long Island doctor Richard Batista's wife, sued over kidney, fires ... - New York Daily News
New York Daily News - BY TRACY CONNOR The Long Island woman whose kidney has become the center of a bizarre divorce battle says her husband is spreading lies. Surgeon demands kidney or $1.5 million Medical Expert Says Surgeon's Quest for Kidney Compensation Is ... Publ.Date : Fri, 09 Jan 2009 04:52:52 GMT Illinois House convenes to consider impeachment - The Associated Press
The Associated Press - SPRINGFIELD, Ill. (AP) - The Illinois House has convened and is debating whether to impeach Gov. Rod Blagojevich. Majority Leader Barbara Flynn Currie says Blagojevich should have resigned. Video: Key Panel Recommends Impeaching Blagojevich Impeachment Vote Looms for Blagojevich Publ.Date : Fri, 09 Jan 2009 15:20:12 GMT Palin: Is Kennedy getting 'kid glove' treatment? - The Associated Press
The Associated Press - WASHINGTON (AP) - Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin is questioning whether Caroline Kennedy is getting better treatment from the press in her bid for a Senate seat from New York than the battering she says she received as John McCain's running mate on the ... Palin Pummels the Press Palin: Couric, Fey Exploited Me Publ.Date : Fri, 09 Jan 2009 14:40:24 GMT Israel continues bombing Gaza despite UN ceasefire call - Christian Science Monitor
Christian Science Monitor - The UN Security Council resolution calls for an 'immediate ceasefire,' followed by an Israeli withdrawal from Gaza, amid warnings about a worsening humanitarian situation. Video: Rockets were fired from Lebanon into Israel Israel, Hamas defy UN call for cease-fire Publ.Date : Fri, 09 Jan 2009 15:21:23 GMT Health care overhaul needn't break bank: study - Reuters
Reuters - By Julie Steenhuysen CHICAGO (Reuters) - An analysis of proposals to overhaul US health care by President-elect Barack Obama and members of Congress suggests it is possible to insure all Americans without significantly raising total health spending. The GOP Should Fight Health-Care Rationing Obama Plan For Health Care Reform Gaining Popularity Publ.Date : Fri, 09 Jan 2009 12:07:31 GMT Pakistan PM hands information to India on Mumbai - The Associated Press
The Associated Press - ISLAMABAD, Pakistan (AP) - Pakistan's main spy agency has given India information about the Mumbai terror attacks, the prime minister said Friday, while denying media speculation of a rift between him and the president. Biden: New US administration committed to Pakistan Biden Makes Kuwait, Pakistan Stops In Final Congressional Trip Publ.Date : Fri, 09 Jan 2009 15:00:15 GMT EU gas monitors arrive in Ukraine - BBC News
BBC News - There are hopes that gas flows through Ukraine may soon be restored after the first EU monitors arrived to start checking pipelines from Russia. Video: Ukraine is blackmailing us Putin Gas row risks long-term damage to Russia's reputation Publ.Date : Fri, 09 Jan 2009 13:56:25 GMT Increased Website Traffic |
PARLOT::Ebooks, Scripts,
Websites, and more... Making a career change is nothing new in today's job... Read More Unless you are among the luckiest people in the world,... Read More Today's job market is competitive. Many companies receive hundreds of... Read More You're nervous. You're so nervous that you crave a smoke.... Read More After establishing a trusting relationship with the safety officer, it... Read More Are you looking to hire the best talent? Are you... Read More To succeed in today's global marketplace, companies must hire the... Read More Do you have what it takes to become an FBI... Read More At every talk I give, I ask the audience to... Read More In the rush of everyday work, it can be difficult... Read More Many people, under financial or other pressures to find work... Read More Any professionally trained interviewer can attest these questions are the... Read More A job search for executives is far less complicated today... Read More The resume objective statement is typically something that trips people... Read More After a thirty (30) second glance lots of resumes get... Read More Many people never consider entering the cleaning business because of... Read More Licensed Practical Nurse (LPN) CareersLicensed Practical Nurses provide the most... Read More An industrious black-tailed ground squirrel has his home beneath a... Read More The attorneys I coach have one common problem. They don't... Read More 1. You dread getting out of bed and going to... Read More Searching for a job has become easier than ever for... Read More I can hear the jokes already and most of them... Read More One of the greatest threats facing both employees and the... Read More What is the first step to take in a job... Read More Do you have a difficult time determining what does not... Read More
Adsense
websites
Is a Career Change on Your Horizon?
Dont Let Difficult People Derail Your Career
How to Write a Resume That Stands Out From The Crowd
Smokin? Up a Storm: Clothing, Smokers, and the Job Interview
Simple Tips to Move Forward on the Job, Part II
Can You Compete?
From The WorkWise Collection: Job Hunting in the New Economy
A Career With The FBI
Have Enough Money to Change Careers - Five Key Steps
Your Next Performance Appraisal: Make It Work For You
The Organized Job Search
How Important Is It To Stand Apart From Others In An Interview And How Difficult Is It?
Searching for an Executive Job
Sample Resume Objectives: Read, Dont Copy
How To Choose The Right Resume Format
From Cleaning Lady to Entrepreneur: How Your Cleaning Business can Benefit from the Images
Become an LPN, the Fast Path to a Nursing Career
The Squirrel Effect
How to Insure Job Security
10 Warning Signs That You?re Ready for a Career Transition
Students Searching for a Job
Work Is A Four-Letter Word
Workplace Violence - 8 Tips For Spotting Early Warning Signs
One Step at a Time in the Job Search
What Not To Include In Your Resume
What are the worst mistakes job hunters make? It turns... Read More
You may have read one of my previous articles on... Read More
Want to get hired faster than up to 97% of... Read More
Here are the sobering facts: studies show that almost 70%... Read More
Make sure that your resume is up to date with... Read More
How will you respond when you're asked the following two... Read More
There are many changes coming in the world of work,... Read More
Seeing your job as an honorable job, adds more meaning... Read More
When communication breaks down in your office or factory and... Read More
Having a great resume is the first critical step in... Read More
With the U.S. economy still slumping and unemployment numbers barely... Read More
Obviously, there are RIGHT ways to move UP the ladder.... Read More
Dubai in the United Arab Emirates is one of the... Read More
If you were thinking of offering your employees special rewards... Read More
If you haven't looked for a job recently, there are... Read More
If you are thinking about starting your own house cleaning... Read More
"Who is that hot babe in the picture?" isn't the... Read More
In my career advising practice, I often find that my... Read More
After a thirty (30) second glance lots of resumes get... Read More
Ugh! Arg! How can a survivor type job be good... Read More
Just like the late, great Rodney Dangerfield, the "humble" cover... Read More
Some may want to interpret "independent" to mean WITHOUT others.... Read More
So, you currently have a job but you are looking... Read More
Don't start off your job search with one (or more)... Read More
Why is it a good idea to determine your worth?... Read More
Careers, Jobs & Employment |