Change How You Say It, Change Your Attractiveness
Language, whether it's emerging from our mind, our heart, or our lips, says a lot about ourselves. It tells others what state we're in at the time, actually where we are in our life, as well as how we dress our self, our body and our soul. It also tells us what we will do now, what we did in the past, and what we will do in the future. Yet, we are so comfortable with our own voice and too busy to hear its voice that negative expressions escape constantly. Does what you say and how you say it count? U-betcha.
For those of you that are a student with the laws of attraction, also known as manifesting what you desire with the power of energy, this is another way you can use the law for your benefit. Let me expound on this in the simplest of ways.
What you say is how you are. There are usually many ways to say what you say. Many ways will not attract, others will. Let's journey together on this with an example. Let's use an expression we tend to use more mindfully and less expressively, "I could care less."
"I could care less," taken literally means "I care more than I might seem to." You are saying that you do care some and that isn't what you intended to mean which was not caring at all. The true way to state your feelings would be, "I couldn't care less." It may sound harsher yet it's the truth. It is important to be true to your words.
Being true in your language is a vital step to being in a place of truth in yourself and in the world. As a I child, my Dad drummed the expression into me, and probably you as well, "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." Practicing the laws isn't about sugar coating your feelings or your language. It's about expressing them from your own truth. But what the saying tells us that even though we can acknowledge this as our truth we don't have to express that truth verbally.
Because we are so comfortable with our language that we have stopped hearing what we are saying 90% of the time. The only way to catch your language is to use this exercise.
Here is a practice that will help you begin your journey in how to uncover the truth to your language. It will also change your hearing process anytime you speak. After listening consciously to your words, then and only then, can you begin a strong path to attractiveness. Also, hearing and acknowledging what you said takes courage. Is it easy to listen to yourself? Heck no. To me, my voice sounds like chalk squeaking on a blackboard. Focus on the outcome to move past the squeal. The shift in attractiveness is well worth the practice.
Audio record your telephone conversations. Just your side of the conversation. There isn't any country or state laws that affect you since they are one sided like there are in recording two-way conversations or in-person conversations. And you don't have to ask the other person's permission.
Extra tip: This is also a great way to improve your marketing and telephone skills as well.
Listen to the recording. Listen for the incomplete sentences, unfinished thoughts, and vocal expressiveness or flatness. Did you really say what you meant? What wasn't said that you thought you said? What wasn't finished and you thought it was? What words were slung together that attracted the opposite of what you wanted?
Extra tip: Tape record your conversations with your children. We become so comfortable with those that we love our language sabotages our relationships frequently. Especially with teenagers.
Awareness and acknowledgment are the first two steps to changing anything. We can't do either without hearing it first. And you can't change what you don't acknowledge. Attractive language allows you to walk a different path through life. Take the leap, find just enough courage to practice this exercise, it may be painful at times, but it will rewrite your life and all those that touch it.
(c) Copyright, Catherine Franz. All rights reserved.
Catherine Franz is a Life and Business Coach and Master Practitioner in the Laws of Attraction. Catherine guides others in finding the light of their own existence and walking an attractive truth in their own lives. http://www.abundancecenter.com blog: http://abundance.blogs.com
 Google News Updated : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 05:49:35 GMT Democrats Are Gaining, Registration Data Shows - New York Times
New York Times - By NICHOLAS CONFESSORE and GRIFF PALMER Some longtime Republican strongholds in New York are becoming increasingly Democratic, a striking change driven by demographic shifts, intense voter registration drives by Democrats and allied groups and sagging ... Campus registration drives in full swing Ott, Hook face off for open county office Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 03:20:33 GMT US Near Changing Stance on North Korea as Terrorist - Wall Street Journal
Wall Street Journal - By JAY SOLOMON WASHINGTON -- The Bush administration is hoping to announce as soon as Saturday that it is tentatively removing North Korea from its list of state sponsors of terrorism, in a bid to kick-start a stalled nuclear disarmament agreement, ... AP: US to remove North Korea from terror blacklist US May Remove North Korea From Terrorism List, AP Reports Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 04:02:40 GMT Paulson Indicates Need to Purchase Bank Equity `Soon as We Can' - Bloomberg
Bloomberg - By John Brinsley and Rebecca Christie Oct. 11 (Bloomberg) -- US Treasury Secretary Henry Paulson indicated that pumping government funds into banks is a priority and said financial markets will remain volatile. US planning to buy equity in financial institutions Treasury Weighs Investing In Banks Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 04:21:05 GMT McCain Lauds and Attacks Obama in Same Day - New York Times
New York Times - Senator John McCain of Arizona and his supporters at a rally on Friday in La Crosse, Wis. By ELISABETH BUMILLER LAKEVILLE, Minn. - After a week of trying to portray Senator Barack Obama as a friend of terrorists who would drive the country into ... McCain Moves to Soften the Tone at Rallies John McCain, speaking to supporters, tries to defuse an anti ... Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 05:08:14 GMT G-7 Commit to `All Necessary Steps' to Stem Global Meltdown - Bloomberg
Bloomberg - By Simon Kennedy Oct. 11 (Bloomberg) -- Group of Seven finance chiefs, meeting after stocks plunged and as a global recession looms, vowed to prevent the failure of vital banks while failing to unveil new initiatives for thawing credit markets. Group of 7 Nations Seek Coordination in Rescue In latest bold step, Treasury will buy bank stakes Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 04:03:42 GMT Bush: US authority able to solve financial crisis - People's Daily Online
People's Daily Online - US President George W. Bush arrives in the Rose Garden at the White House to makes a statement on the economy in Washington, October 10, 2008. President Bush vows action on financial crisis Bush's Lullaby to the Markets Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 04:12:49 GMT Genomics project unites four Wisconsin research institutions - Milwaukee Journal Sentinel Milwaukee Journal Sentinel - By KATHLEEN GALLAGHER Wisconsin’s four biggest academic research institutions will collaborate on an initiative aimed at giving the state national stature in the fast-emerging field of individualized medicine, Gov. Marshfield Clinic gets biggest donation yet Wis. governor unveils gene research triangle Publ.Date : Sat, 11 Oct 2008 05:29:44 GMT Increased Website Traffic |
PARLOT::Ebooks, Scripts,
Websites, and more... Gnothi seauton,, said Socrates. "Know thyself."These words remain as true... Read More Disclaimer: All the thoughts expressed are my views only! Your... Read More Have you ever felt paralyzed or crippled by fear? As... Read More If you have a dream, follow it. No matter how... Read More That's all it takes to change the world. Take a... Read More We are often asked to tell our life-story. I wasn't... Read More I wish you never have to go through that kind... Read More How well do you understand how gut instincts ? yours... Read More I just moved into my new luxurious, harborside condo, overlooking... Read More 1. Emotion: We are emotional creatures and as in all... Read More Growing up, we all had a mental picture of the... Read More If you find yourself in a difficult situation, don't continue... Read More When you have an important event to attend there are... Read More You've heard people say that opportunity only knocks once. I... Read More Do you know anyone who always seems to have bad... Read More As we age and our teeth shift, a gap between... Read More If you have ever traveled across country by train, you... Read More I'd like you to do an exercise with me.I want... Read More If you've been practising the Law of Attraction, then you're... Read More In the past, I have touched on the connection of... Read More It's amazing how easy it is to convince ourselves that... Read More When you make a decision, you hope it is ultimately... Read More October is hands down my favorite month. Every year l... Read More There's no way to fake INTEGRITY. You are either are... Read More What can you do to really immerse yourself into living... Read More
Adsense
websites
How To Invite Positive Change In Your Life
Are You Living?
Courage To Be Someone New
Follow Your Dream
A Look In The Mirror
Telling Your Story of Success
Discover the Magical Power of Pulling Heartstrings ...Its Mindblowing!
Your Gut Instincts & Ability to Get Along Quiz
Recognize Desire AS Power
Living Life to the Full: 20 Steps
The Likeability Factor ? Do You Have It?
If Youre in a Hole, Stop Digging
7 Ways To Make a Great First Impression
Opportunity Knocks 1000 Times
Law of Attraction - What You Project You Receive
Correcting a Gap Between the Teeth
Unexpected Wisdom
Do You Have Tickets To Your Dream Theater?
Just Allow? But How?
Use Your Vibrations of Energy to Communicate
Releasing the Illusion of Control
Ego or Higher Self: Whos Behind Your Decisions?
October: A Month of Personal Harvest
Abundance Flourishes in an Atmosphere of Integrity
Five Ways To Create On Purpose By Living In The Moment
Affordable and Reliable Web Hosting Starting at $4.49/Month
How to Tame the Destructive Ego
Polly's story Polly had a four year old... Read More
Attract Your Ideal Relationship Using the Law of Attraction
First, I'll need to explain what Law of Attraction is... Read More
Affirmations - Anxiety & Panic
Using affirmations can be a very powerful tool. You can... Read More
Its All Up to You (Nobody is Coming to Save You!)
As painful as this realization may be, it is absolutely... Read More
Would You Rather Be Wealthy?
Would you rather be wealthy or poverty-stricken? Not a difficult... Read More
If Something Shows Up 3 Times, Is That a Sign That Its Right for Me?
Have you heard yourself or others say: "This has shown... Read More
Plug in with a Pupose!
Imagine that each person on this planet carried with them... Read More
The Good, The Bad & The Ugly
Most of us don't want to admit we have a... Read More
What Is Your Legacy?
During a recent speech, I told the audience that my... Read More
Creating Your Own Destiny
If you don't know where you are going, you won't... Read More
A Magnificent Obsession Is The Best Medicine!
The idea I'm about to share with you can bring... Read More
Awaken The Genie Within
Ancient lore tells us that there's a magical genie who... Read More
Self-Concept and Self-Actualization: Nucleus of Shyness and Social Anxiety Disorder
In the dynamics of the self-concept and in the tendency... Read More
Secret of Wealth
"Before I had a lot of money, I was really... Read More
Aspire to Be
Many individuals believe that they have to "live up" to... Read More
What to Do When Your Spouse or Your Friends are Negative?
This year (2004), I've completed over 64 seminars. And one... Read More
5 Powerful Steps To Unleashing Your Creative Self
There is a thread of certainty that runs through many... Read More
Talk Your Way to Financial Freedom
Feeling trapped by lack of funds? We can learn from... Read More
The Law of Attraction - Make it Work For You
The Law of Attraction responds to whatever vibration you are... Read More
Guiltless Contentment
'Have I stopped dreaming?' 'Why am I not as stressed?'... Read More
Your Life and Prosperity Are In Your Reputation!
"Your good name and your reputation are EVERYTHING! ? Protect... Read More
The Power of Desire- Part 2
Let's continue where we left off in Part 1...We have... Read More
Five Ways to Sharpen Your Sense of Humor and Improve Your Relationships
Humor has long been considered one of the most effective... Read More
Be Specific
Are you having a difficult time pinpointing what you want... Read More
Making New Friends
How do we make friends? More importantly if dropped into... Read More
Attraction |